Urban Suburban – Meet the Glessons (Gossfields)

The Gossfields break the lid of secrecy and keeps it real about their past relationship trials and challenges and how they worked through them to stay together on Pg 38. More »

Long Distance Dead End?

Q: When is it time to say so long to a long term-long distance relationship? Hey Girlfriend: When a long distance relationship shows no promise or commitment to bridge the physical divide, it’s More »

How Do We Sustain Gay Relationships?

DEAR Q&D How Do We Sustain Gay Relationships? Q: First and foremost, I believe that we, as Gay individuals, haven’t had the time to nurture our relationships the way straights have.  We haven’t More »

Are Gays Less Committed?

DEAR Q&D Are Gays Less Committed? Q: Due to the intolerance of homosexuality in our society, LGBT individuals have not been able to live openly and form relationships in the past.  LGBT couples More »

Is Conflict Inevitable?

DEAR Q&D Is conflict inevitable? Q: Opposition working together creates forward motion. It’s a law of nature, Yin and Yang in equal balance creates harmony.  It’s the imbalance of opposing forces that causes More »


1 Day @ A Time: Love the One You’re With


If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with – and you are with yourself every moment. So give it freely and frequently to that man/woman in the mirror. A 2nd party can only enhance and compliment what should already be there, not fulfill or take away.

RT @centerblacklgbt: May/June @SWERVmagazine includes an interview w/ @dlchronicles creators “Real Life Dynamic Duo” @thegossfields (@deondraygossett + @QLenear) via @thegossfields